When The Sword Pierces Your Soul

•June 2, 2012 • 1 Comment


Caring for someone who does not reciprocate is a difficult task. At times, parenting feels that way.

Then I am reminded of the prophet Simeon speaking to Mary, the mother of Jesus:
Then Simeon blessed them and said to Mary, his mother: “This child is destined to cause the falling and rising of many in Israel, and to be a sign that will be spoken against, so that the thoughts of many hearts will be revealed. And a sword will pierce your own soul too.” (Luke 2:34-35)

Now the above verse is referring to the pain Mary would experience at seeing her son crucified. And that is indeed a cruel sword thrust. There are no guarantees. This broken world is often not too kind to children. What parent wants to outlive their child?

Yet there are also the thousand tiny stabs each day that come from children who misbehave, break trust, and speak words of hurt and pain. Who do not treat us with the respect and honor we deserve.

Do we roll over and die? I think not.

We go on.
In faith.

We continue to love for love conquers all.
We continue to gently discipline so that our children learn responsibility.
And other important life lessons.
That there are consequences for our actions.
That boundaries exist to keep us safe.
That we exist in community and harming one harms us all.

Above all, I must remember that these who have been placed in my care are not mine.
They are the Creator’s,
who knows them more than I ever will,
who loves them more than I ever will,
who has a beautiful purpose for my children,
who is the Perfect Parent I will never be.

These thoughts are the healing balm when the inevitable sword thrusts come
and I can continue to parent in peace.

A Message From Joshua: Don't Play With Nukes

•June 1, 2012 • Leave a Comment

Reblogged from Slow Mover:

I just finished watching the 1983 movie WarGames. Having grown up a Cold War Kid, I find myself wondering why so little has changed. Why in the world are there still nuclear weapons in the world?

The US cannot claim the high ground when it supports some nations that have nuclear weapons, like Israel, Pakistan, India, and gets upset at other nations like North Korea and Iran which may/may not have or are/aren’t pursuing them?

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What $399 Will Buy INSTEAD Of An iPhone

•May 30, 2012 • Leave a Comment

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I must admit the iPhone is pretty cool, but do I really need the latest gadget? Especially when I can spend my money on something that matters and make a difference in the world. Here are some suggestions:

$399 can buy 20 flocks of geese (or) 20 flocks of ducks (or) 20 flocks of chicks (or) 12 rabbits (or) 10 colonies of honey bees (or) 1.5 water buffaloes (or) 2 llamas (or) 3 sheep (or) 4 shares of a heifer (or) 2 pigs from…

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True Acts of Valor – Biting Off Buttons

•May 28, 2012 • 1 Comment

In past postings I have called attention to the troubling trend of merging entertainment with the military.

(see http://peacegrooves.wordpress.com/2012/02/02/going-past-midway-dont-tread-play-sing-dance-on-me/ and  http://peacegrooves.wordpress.com/2011/11/11/817/ )

Not too long ago a movie came out that featured Navy Seals in action – I guess as a way for the media to continue the Special Forces love fest so fresh after the killing of Osama Bin Laden. I have wanted to write something about the movie when it came out but wasn’t able to. It seems fitting to do so on Memorial Day.

I have many problems with the movie, but I will simply whip the same dead horse I seem to do so often. Such “entertainment” glorifies violence, trivializes the sacrifices of soldiers, citizens, and their families, and diminishes the enormous human and monetary costs of war. On this day, when we honor those who “serve” or “who have paid the ultimate price for our freedom,” I felt it was important to highlight those whose acts of valor are not memorialized, who in some cases gave their lives rather than kill others, and whose sacrifice paved the way for more democratic freedoms for citizens whose conscience objects to them going to war.

The following is an excerpt from an Amish Country News Article by Brad Igou http://www.amishnews.com/amisharticles/peopleofpeace.htm

The “war to end all wars” spelled problems for the Amish and Mennonites, whose Pennsylvania German dialect made them suspect in some people’s eyes. By this time, Amish dress and customs also made them more distinct from average Americans. The Amish declared conscientious objector (CO) status. As Albert Keim writes in THE AMISH AND THE STATE, “CO’s were drafted into the army and posted to military camps with the hope that they would enter noncombatant service.” The question then became one of how much to “cooperate.” Their resistance to wearing uniforms rather than their plain clothes, and their refusal to bear arms, resulted in harassment, beatings, and humiliation in many cases.

A book recounting these incidents called NONRESISTANCE PUT TO THE TEST was published in 1981. Particularly shocking were the experiences recounted by Menno Diener at Camp Taylor, Kentucky, where he witnessed the bayonet stabbing of one Amish boy. During the course of his stay, Menno protested having to wear a military uniform and take orders. Here is how he describes what followed…

So the commander got a broomstick and beat me across the legs till he broke his stick. I had streaks and swelling on my legs. Then he got a 2×4 about three feet long that had four spikes in one end, and threatened to hit me in the face with it. He put it near to my face and then back again like a ball bat and said, “If it weren’t for the law, I would like to see how far I could sink these spikes into your face.”

A few days later another boy, his face black and blue from beatings, was placed on display by a public road. Someone placed a sign on him that read, “I refuse to fight for my country.”

When camp officials were court martialed for their actions, the Amish refused to testify against them because “it would be helping to punish them and cause ill feelings between resisting and nonresistance, and be a poor light of Christianity in our church and background.”

The book contains stories of suffering in many other camps, including one where a boy was pulled for half a mile on the ground by a horse. At another camp in Georgia, a man was hung by a rope until unconscious.

According to Steven Nolt in his HISTORY OF THE AMISH, “Officers occasionally ‘baptized’ Amish COs in the camp latrines in mockery of their Anabaptist beliefs.”

In Kansas, Amish bishop Manasses Bontrager wrote a letter urging his members not to buy Liberty Bonds, and urging support of the Amish youth serving in the camps. In his words…

Many people can’t understand why we don’t want to defend our country. Christ said, “Render unto Caesar that which belongs to Caesar, and to God that which belongs to God.” Caesar protects our property, for which we should willingly pay our taxes as Christ asked us to…. But our coming in this world, our intellects, our physical powers — these do not belong to Caesar. If he claims them to defend him, Christ’s laws strictly forbid our yielding to such a claim.

A few months later, Bontrager was arrested by a U.S. Marshall and put on trial for Violation of the 1917 Espionage Act and was fined $500 for “inciting and attempting to incite subordination, disloyalty, and refusal of duty in the military and naval forces of the United States.”

When I was in college, one elderly gentlemen told me a story from WW I involving Amish as well. Amish Mennonite men imprisoned for their beliefs would take the buttons off of the clothes they were forced to wear. When they were handcuffed to keep them from doing so, they would bite the buttons off. I also read that some men were then forced to stand naked in their cells. The image of simple men behind bars with lips bloodied rather than wear clothes that resembled  a military uniform is one that shames and inspires me.

Contrary to popular belief, the military does not have an exclusive corner on fighting for one’s beliefs. Acts of valor have been occurring every day throughout the history of this country. Countless times, citizens (pacifists and others) have put their lives on the line to help, rather than kill others. Yet we do not see fit to memorialize this “army.”

My forbears, some of who are mentioned above, would not want to be recognized.

Yet doing so perhaps will redefine within the body politic such terms as: valor, freedom, sacrifice, service.

Then and only then will our country truly live up to the ideals it was founded upon and be a nation that exports life rather than death.

Jesus is My Game Boy

•May 26, 2012 • Leave a Comment

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I’ve noticed an alarming trend in churches. I look around during worship and I see children or youth playing their Game Boys. I remember when I was a child that I used to do other things in church than sit still and listen, but there is something to me that is different than doodling with a pen or pencil because my ears and most of my senses are still available.

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Food for Spiders – Caught In The World Wide Web

•May 24, 2012 • 1 Comment

I turned 45 today.

The age comes with a mixture of emotions. Though I may live to be 100 it is hard not to feel like my most productive years are disappearing quickly. Of course I ask myself what I’m doing with my life.

More specifically – how am I spending that limited universally undervalued currency I have – namely my TIME?

In all honesty I have to admit a lot of my time is spent on the web. Or to put it more truthfully, IN the web.

Perhaps you have noticed that my blogs have been languishing lately. It is not for wont of ideas. I have simply been processing how best to spend my “currency.”

I love to write. Writing is prayer for me. I thoroughly enjoy expressing myself via blogs and having what I write connect with others.

But I am in the middle of writing several books. I have the time at this stage in my life to be able to do so. That may not always be the case.

Yet how am I spending the bulk of my time? Staying stuck in the web.

Now blogging is not the culprit and you will see an increase in my posts in the near future. I just won’t be trying to write daily posts for 5 blogs. Hopefully I’ll be able to post at a consistent yet more manageable pace.

There are other temptations.

The web is so beautiful (just like the ones strung across the path glistening in the morning dew). There are many amazing things to experience that were totally unavailable 15 years ago. The internet is by far the most revolutionizing invention the past 100 years. We have yet to see its true potential.

But, and this is a big but, it is a MAJOR time waster.

Sure the web is beautiful. But like the one in nature, it is easy to get stuck in its sticky strands. And there are lots of spiders.

-Products I don’t need that I can buy with a click of the mouse and that magically appear on my doorstep.

-Beautiful Photoshopped people scantily clad or wearing nothing at all that create false images in my head of what true beauty is.

-Music, movies, and other media that while entertaining are only that and tempt the dishonest consumer to enjoy without paying.

-Lots of information that for the most part is VERY close to gossip and feeds something in me though it must not be very satisfying if I have to keep coming back for more.

A year from now I want to look back and see some books completed. I want to have stronger relationships with my loved ones. I want to have a deeper spiritual walk with God. I want to be better able to enjoy the beauty of the creation shining outside this black box.

I don’t want to be food for spiders.

Help! My dog ate my colon!

•May 23, 2012 • 3 Comments

So I decided that I needed to cut back on my screen time.

I have been spending way too much time surfing and I don’t mean on the ocean. Plus I decided that I wanted to be more present to my wife and kids when they are home.

Then as if to support my decision, my laptop died.

Perhaps it is developing a contemplative conscience.

No big deal I thought. It was getting sluggish anyway. My dox were backed up and I had the programs I needed. So I started the recovery process and left the house.

I’ll have a new computer when I get home, I thought.

Well, a different one anyway.

I keep the computer in the room where we put the dogs when we are away. I figure it is a low cost security solution. Open the door, reach for the laptop, and get licked to death.

So I get home and Wahla! everything is recovered!

A technological resurrection of sorts.

Halleluiah!

Wait a second.

More like, doggone it!

I’m missing the colon/semi-colon button and there is a flat coat retriever who is looking REALLY guilty.

Which begs the question.

How can a dog eat ONE button off of a laptop keyboard? (He did, believe me – I found the chewed pieces behind my chair). And I promise I was not eating peanut butter and pressing the colon/semi-colon button repeatably. ;)

I promise. ;}

So now not only do I have to make sure my children are not getting too much screen time, I’ve got dogs who have been surfing the web without my knowledge.

Like my wife says, “That black metal box sure causes you a lot of stress.”

She’s right of course.

And I think I’ve figured out why we are suddenly getting a lot of junk mail advertising doggie treats.

:) ;) ;) ;>}

“BLUE! GET AWAY FROM MY COMPUTER!”

 
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